This entry is not meant to be some life lesson or lecture, but it is merely my opinion and thoughts on honesty.
Heights, snakes, and distrust are my biggest fears in life. I left radical fundamentalists off this time. Given the past situation I just got out of, nothing makes me more uncomfortable than being around a person who is not genuine. Whenever someone blatantly misleads me and others, I clearly see the same person that I’m glad that I will never have to see again. Whether it be something important or minuscule, lying just makes things so unnecessarily complicated with regards to friendships, relationships, conversations, etc. It just adds to the insecurity of others around us. Nothing is more frustrating than having a person portray conflicting accounts of a single situation. It’s the hardest thing to forgive, and it’s just something I don’t have to put up with anymore.
The way I grew up, I was always taught that credence is an aspect that is demonstrated and earned by a person. So with that said, it is pretty much impossible for me to blindly trust a person that I have not known for a long time. Some people have told me that this is not a good ideology to follow, but it is what continually works for me.
Granted, no one tells the truth one hundred percent of the time, I do not believe it is too much to ask of a person to at least try to be consistently accurate in their accounts. On the bright side, I do have the option to select the people I associate myself with, and that is the only way I can combat a situations like that.
In closing, the fastest way to lose our good character is to lose our honesty and trust. I may not be able to trust everyone, but I can always trust a dishonest person to be untrustworthy.